tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33448587587423976122024-03-19T02:41:58.937-05:00Frog In StitchesThe Muddlings of a Southern Frog.
Graphic Artist, Seamstress, Crocheter, Knitter, Mom of a Micropreemie, and last but not least Wife.FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.comBlogger145125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-44141041765254404402018-08-13T22:34:00.001-05:002018-08-14T05:50:37.515-05:00H.A.L.T essential oil blendEveryone and their Mama seems to be jumping on the essential oil thing lately. Including myself and recently my mother! It is something I was glad to be able to do to help her with a problem we share. <div>My mother and I both battle depression. I am blessed to have her as an advocate. She doesn't hide the fact that she has depression and champions against the stigma. Depression is "mearly" a biological chemical imbalance, no different than diabetes. </div><div> She is the one who taught me about "spirals" and H.A.L.T. A spiral is when the serotonin begins to drop, just like insulin for a diabetic. It is overwhelming, but it can creep up so slowly that you don't even realize it has started until you are in the middle of it. This is why my mother taught me to halt. </div><img id="id_52f5_f47a_708b_e649" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-j2ErlGZBQZk/W3JNzF1ke8I/AAAAAAAAFZs/zOiB05vGFjAj62Ut5T7UxitSRv00fU3vgCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br><div><br></div><div>H.A.L.T stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired. When I notice I am mid-spiral I am to stop and figure which one(s) I am at the moment. I have been all 4 at once. Once I figure it out I do something to fix whichever one is triggering the spiral. </div><div> Some depressives require pharmaceutical assistance, which is what I used after my first 3 pregnancies. Personally I hate using them and prefer to get off of them as soon as possible, which is a trick and process unto itself (squishy eyeballs, anyone?) </div><div>I was hoping after Baby C's complicated delivery that I wouldn't battle or have as severe PPD as the previous pregnancies since I actually got to labor that time. I did have my OB write me a prescription and fill the first bottle just in case. I knew if it started that I wanted to have something on hand. </div><div>Everything started out fine but with some of the post-birth complications I felt the start of some small spirals. </div><div> I have been researching and building up a collection of oils and books the past few years. I figured I would try and see if I could use some to help stave off needing the prescription. The blend that I came up with has been effective and the version I made for my mother has helped support her pharmaceuticals. </div><div>In honor of my mother I call it the HALT blend. </div><div><br></div><div>Needed:</div><div>A 2oz brown or blue glass bottle.</div><a href="https://amzn.to/2KSsw21" id="id_8f18_1fd1_c025_ab5d" target="_blank">(For Example)</a><div>A diluting oil (olive, coconut, etc) </div><div>Rollerballs </div><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BFE7NMM/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B01BFE7NMM&linkCode=as2&tag=froinsti-20&linkId=1f0b725d515e79518a6dc9eb86342867" id="id_abad_5d9c_2e78_1e04">I prefer red opaque ones, since it is carried around. </a><div>Essential Oils</div><a href="https://www.myyl.com/lzgeis" id="id_79e4_4746_e62f_5307" target="_self">(if you need a person) </a><div><br></div><div>30 drops Lemon</div><div>10 drops Rosemary</div><div>5 drops Lavender </div><div>5 drops Frankincense </div><div>5 drops Cederwood </div><div><br></div><div>Fill the rest of the bottle with dilution oil of choice, cap and shake. We use this blend to then fill our roller balls for emercancy use mid-spiral. It seems to help us, I hope it helps others.</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div>*obligitory disclaimer* I am NOT a medical professional or aromatherapist. I'm only sharing what has seemed to help us. Don't take things that you are allergic to and ALWAYS check essential oils for interactions with conditions or medications. Seriously some oils can spark sezures in epileptics. Please don't use any oil in excess as it may trigger health conditions in those around you. </div><div>Also links maybe affiliates, but don't change what you pay.. but might help me a little.</div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-49307620648781089172018-02-26T09:00:00.000-06:002018-02-26T09:00:08.069-06:00Techschooling<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> I am within that lovely "Xteneal" generation but the cusp of the "tech native" generation. </span>When I was growing up it was odd for someone to have a computer in their home, but I grew up in the home of a computer programmer. Most of my friends and the people I graduated with are not tech natives.<div> It is interesting to me how frequently people talk about rules on technology but for me they are natural. No screens in bedrooms, computers in public spaces, hiding passwords, etc. </div><div> So for me to include technology within my homeschooling was just as natural a breathing. Lil C used to watch YouTube videos in the NICU, much to the horror of some of the nurses. </div><div>As he grew we found new tools to teach and connect. Technology has been his favorite of tools but there were less electronic tools as well. </div><div><img id="id_ea96_f92f_4a56_a994" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-T8tEpy-zC1M/WpBXqcx4ZrI/AAAAAAAAEP0/fXu5V-IUeBIgdfHzKXNYa-HP8mpr1JBjQCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>As he has grown we have regularly had to reasses our tools and methods, some more effectively than others. </div><div>The past few years we have been using an iPad but this Christmas we changed to Amazon Fires. </div><div>We are still learning what works best for us with the new tablets. </div><div><img id="id_7463_b518_f7b3_633c" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-8cGH2qR_L9Q/WpBXrdnMwiI/AAAAAAAAEP4/uI-s3bSmGic5JD2xNP565L38xkZ3ZPNYQCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>The one thing that has remained rather consistent is the use of YouTube to teach new concepts. Daddy C figured out how to set us up with YouTube on our TV making sibling rivalry less of an issue when they are not fighting to watch a tiny screen.</div><div>Each week I set a playlist for each day an the topics we will be covering that week. For a sneak peak at our week: </div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuWnqbhT2aBDRX_SWLHy2VbEcgwp7duX5" id="id_8c15_baea_46c4_3b72" target="_blank">Monday</a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuWnqbhT2aBBXcoB7ouOvfzbFb92JpMxK" id="id_bf58_ff65_6d90_da66">Tuesday</a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuWnqbhT2aBBZvuCxVl12WC7jHg7n1jZs" id="id_679c_6ff6_5e60_666b">Wednesday</a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuWnqbhT2aBD0W9ZSjBbZ2tNr95W8p5YE" id="id_39bb_f541_8864_77a2">Thursday</a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuWnqbhT2aBAV9OAKKh8u3mBsJfkgOsOE" id="id_af6f_5b02_8cb3_ae91">Friday</a></div><div><br></div><div>If you checked those links often you would notice certain reaccuring channels such as </div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfPyVJEBD7Di1YYjTdS2v8g" id="id_bb35_50ad_900b_ab20">Homeschool Pop</a>, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/ArtforKidsHub" id="id_b142_6b52_be0f_6b99">Art Hub for Kids,</a><a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/havefunteaching" id="id_89c3_fc90_6b76_c7f8">Have Fun Teaching,</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/JackHartmann" id="id_93e6_db71_6ea9_35b0">Jack Hartman,</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/scishowkids" id="id_8be3_37a7_76e4_445c">SciShow Kids</a> and others. <div><br></div><div>With Lil'C requiring EXTREME repetition, this allows for that without driving me insane, due to his TBI he tends to need to memorize before he can understand. </div><div>This also means that should we need to school can be accomplished anywhere. Including during a EKG.. and has. Many. Many. Times. </div><div><img id="id_afc5_3b81_605f_298c" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-w91lGZDms10/WpBXtQ81HoI/AAAAAAAAEP8/8AwOsRxdD9Q0_9SkKheNGwO28HhtJG9ywCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div><br></div><div>Some of our favorite apps:</div><div>ALL of the</div><a href="http://www.originatorkids.com/" id="id_9378_eb7c_5f8b_8b79">Originator Apps</a> and were the first apps added to the new tablets, I didn't even buy them before checking for combabtibility. <div><a href="https://bibleappforkids.com" id="id_de39_7f1a_dc37_fdb1">Bible For Kids</a></div><a href="Doodle Buddy - Paint, Draw, Scribble, Sketch - It" s="" addictive!="" by="" dinopilot="" https:="" itunes.apple.com="" us="" app="" doodle-buddy-paint-draw-scribble-sketch-its-addictive="" id313232441?mt="8'" id="id_a84_1540_17f2_d9d4">Doodle Buddy</a><div><a href="iTrace — handwriting for kids by DevPocket https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/itrace-handwriting-for-kids/id583678381?mt=8" id="id_dfe6_df48_ccf0_49e2">iTrace</a><br><div><a href="Xylophone from Interactive Alphabet by Piikea St. LLC https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/xylophone-from-interactive-alphabet/id486202429?mt=8" id="id_17c9_c5c2_3b75_2f2e" target="_self">Xylophone </a><br></div></div><div><a href="DialSafe Pro by Little Bit Studio, LLC. https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/dialsafe-pro/id438306615?mt=8" id="id_217f_a785_4d26_8f24">Dial Safe Pro</a><br></div><div><a href="Math Speed Drill by Bad Weasel, LLC https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/math-speed-drill/id918700336?mt=8" id="id_440f_62d5_2929_c55">Math Speed Drill</a></div><div><a href="Flashcards Maker Pro by Jiraapa Jongkuetrakul https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/flashcards-maker-pro/id629865352?mt=8" id="id_8edc_178d_beb3_f15c">FlashCard Maker</a><br></div><div><br></div><div>To name a few. We have also been working on Google Docs and a few Dupelo apps as well. </div><div><br></div><div>We are constantly updating and trying out new apps, even more so with the new tablets. Some transitioned and unfortunately some are not compatible with the new tablets. </div><div><br></div><div>What apps do you with your kids? Do they have their own devices, use yours or are not allowed devices at all? </div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-78399708446870265022018-01-29T08:03:00.000-06:002018-01-29T08:03:09.940-06:00Montessori... ishWhen we decided to homeschool our children I spent some time looking into various methods. Considering I have a degree in education, you would think I already would have known this, but I didn't. I stumbled across a blog post about different styles and thought that <a href="https://amshq.org/Montessori-Education/Introduction-to-Montessori" id="id_c918_ed67_2cc3_63ab">Montessori</a> sounded the closest to my natural philosophy and basically what we were already doing. <div><img id="id_836a_f25e_94ee_4a49" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-NnGK7tKBFso/Wmz2rS-zgdI/AAAAAAAAEOg/ZNTQEEhB9ugct9xeQk5tBSyvtbbJIWB-gCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div><br></div><div>The core parts we picked up were "Only do for me what I can't do for myself" and "Help me do it myself". So what does that mean and what does that look like? <div>-"Only do for me what I can't do for myself" means if your 2yo can put on her own shirt, stop "helping". Sometimes it can mean getting dressed takes longer... but in a short while it will be faster since you know have one less person to put a shirt on! Plus, the 2yo is excited and proud of herself for putting on her own shirt! </div><div>You would be suprised the things that a small child can do. I remember being fairly shocked at other moms who were wondering if their pre-teen COULD do chores (not should, that is a family decision). I was shocked because of how much Lil'K can do, I didn't realize how far off the norm we are. When it comes to her I basically try and stay out of her way. She was reading by 2.5, and at 5 she can wash dishes, sort laundry, start laundry, do basic addition and subtraction (partially self-taught), and fold her laundry. She really confused us by how much she just DID. </div><div>Once Lil'C started to learn things (although Lil'K usually does them first) we do the same. He can now dress himself, excluding his shoes and right sock. He can sort laundry, put away his clean clothes and is AMAZING at math and spelling (seriously spells better than me)</div><div><img id="id_fce1_b11d_dea1_914d" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-VWQQp3FrzYg/Wmz2uXnBazI/AAAAAAAAEOk/Rlxx9pWlOyoxdCkxVaSGDEtmj5pT1qJMgCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>-"Help me do it myself"</div><div>This was really HUGE for Lil'C since he has the deck stacked against him with Cerebral Palsy/Right Hemiplega. For Lil'K this was basically stools around the house, so she could reach things and low shelves for kid dishes. </div><div>For Lil'C I basically have to break any skill down and teach him how to do it one handed. I usually put my dominant hand inside my back waist band and learn the skill, then teach him that skill. I also teach each sub-skill one at a time until he can do them all Independantly. </div><div>Putting on his shirt for example. First we worked on putting an arm through the sleeve. Once he could do that part independently we figured out he could pull the shirt over his head if he had the right arm over his elbow. Once that part was down, I found he could get his left arm in his shirt once the right arm was in, followed by putting the shirt on his right arm. Finally I got him to put his shirt on if it is laying flat face-up on a surface (table/couch). He spins it mid-dressings so if it is face down it will end up backwards. The step we are currently working on is getting it onto that surface himself and how to turn it right-side-out if it is inside out. This process has taken MONTHS and has required help from occupational therapy. </div><div><img id="id_8ed5_466f_e4c5_95b0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-2cC7e-2cQY0/Wmz2nlRYBhI/AAAAAAAAEOc/wq3I_1wyEJgCc0wW086BTLbY1bI1zgNRQCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>Because we have done this with almost every skill, I can now dress myself, tie my shoes, put on my socks, open a jar, cut food and fold clothes.. all one-handed.</div><div>The other part is tools. We have a one-button battery-operated can opener, but we will likely get another. </div><div>We also have a button-puller but haven't used it much yet. We searched for a power wheel that could be driven one-handed, which Lil'C loved until Lil'K and Baby K filled it with mud... electronics are not fond of mud. </div><div><br></div><div>Montessori is also big on emotional regulation, which means to respond calmly (<a href="https://www.positiveparentingsolutions.com" id="id_dd5a_12ce_7f8_661f">Positive Parenting</a> works well with this but I'm still learning..) which when I manage to do certainly helps. With Daddy C and I both having ADHD (meaning all the kids will/do as well) then this can be important, yet difficult, to do.</div><div>Lil'C has become much better at calming, although his frustration (usually at Lil'K) can get the best of him. </div><div><br></div><div>Montessori also pushes for lessons/trays/items to be self-corrective. A puzzle would be a familiar example. A puzzle can only go together one way, so if you put a piece wrong either the piece will not fit or you will he unable to finish. </div><div><img id="id_fbb5_8a9d_6f4c_fe30" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-BOj43-eSCqA/Wmz2ueZQD1I/AAAAAAAAEOo/bYbJ9XcGWagS6fwugiQ8S7rt2pzvOOkbgCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>What philosophy do you use? And why? </div></div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-40709902522226900392017-11-24T20:56:00.001-06:002017-11-26T14:52:57.356-06:00Don't always cook alone.Did you know that you don't have to cook EVERY. SINGLE. MEAL. At your home? <br><img id="id_a20e_8464_dea1_8426" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-L_FDbyDH93k/Whspp_6ohcI/AAAAAAAAEM8/zGQXIKm-qsoQyGGa-5rXscRw-zxtJ9s5ACHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><div> Even though my husband has spent the past 7 years working in a professional kitchen, I have still been doing nearly all of the cooking. If someone else was cooking it was to give me a "break". Does this mean my husband has started taking over some of the meals? No, he drives me crazy in my kitchen and my kitchen drives him crazy! Nope I got some new help! Over a year ago we won a contest that gave us a cooking course. We completed the beginner course and accepted the challenge to do a regular meal for each student. Most seem to do a dinner but being homeschoolers we did a lunch. Each kid now has one lunch that they are in charge of each week. We have developed into a pattern. Lil'C makes spaghetti on Monday, Lil'K makes Sandwiches, and Baby K makes Tuna! <br><img id="id_7776_70f9_adb2_a3a9" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-D10zXG-ozb8/WhjbxlmCWpI/AAAAAAAAEL0/FGoBRxkNzlAcPwjRx9aE29ame5v-sGkHACHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><div>Lil'C uses pre-cooked hamburger and canned spaghetti sauce using ramen noodles,</div><div> Lil'K needs coraling so she doesn't get TOO creative, and Baby K requires a MUCH larger mixing bowl to compensate for her 3 year old motor skills. </div><img id="id_c43b_e922_31bb_821f" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-ESCCox7GOwI/Whjb1-H8haI/AAAAAAAAEMA/9Wt1hSU2_C8uojQV6Vj23vWmZvv3NU9AgCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br><img id="id_d8db_39e_2a8a_bf5" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-hLMIy31gq8I/Whjb0hl7acI/AAAAAAAAEL4/cYkUiEZHXoE5ytDnwBCdSMKIsS0TnpeGACHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><div><br></div><div><img id="id_a8df_3439_ddfa_2fd2" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Kd-KZMZ6l8A/Whjb1uktO9I/AAAAAAAAEL8/9zqs492-Fds_ec5dAHKswdA_jThaQwLpACHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>They have all been very proud of their cooking days and take them very seriously. If for some reason we have to miss their day, we have to make it up another meal. </div><div><br></div><div>We have had to add a few tools to our arsenal of kitchen tools (affiliates):</div><div><a href="http://amzn.to/2hQ7RiW" id="id_661a_2934_1d49_b26">A one-Button Can Opener</a>, a <a href="http://amzn.to/2zlSnu5" id="id_aa62_fffd_d8d9_7332">one-handed cutting board</a> for Lil'C, a <a href="http://amzn.to/2zA7VyC" id="id_898b_28af_fac2_d09e">kid-sized cutting board</a> for Lil'K, </div><div>We also added 2 Y-peelers, a one-handed chopper and a handful of kid sized kitchen tools. </div><div><br></div><div><img id="id_b9f8_482a_df71_3d30" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-odiaF2uVMxw/WhjbtyKOXqI/AAAAAAAAELw/YSfYNRjxCS01u-X-jM4RUPnOSy_vsMn6wCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>We enjoyed the course and results so much that we are now redoing it with some homeschool friends. Baby K is taking it seriously for the first time and I expect after we finish the beginner, the big kids will go on to intermediate. The class works for multiple ages. I suggest checking out all the details here:</div><div><br></div><a href="https://sl290.isrefer.com/go/kcrf/Froginstitches/" id="id_85a1_f863_7527_60bb">Kid's Cook Real Food</a><div><br></div><div>In full disclosure I am an affiliate (because I love it!) so I can let you in on a little secret... don't buy it today! Seriously! Wait for Cyber Monday! You will thank me. </div><div>It would be a great gift FOR a grandparent or FROM a grandparent. If you get the forever version then you can re-do the class as kiddos get older, like we are doing. It is also more fun in a group, but messy. That is part of the fun though isn't it? </div><div>I would love to know if you get it, and don't let disabilities get in the way, check out #kidscookrealfood and #kidscookrealfoodmodified on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/southernfrog/" id="id_8b4e_7c7d_2114_30e7" target="_blank">Instagram</a>!</div><div><br></div><div>See ya in the Kitchen! </div></div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-27946868795786487642017-08-01T20:18:00.001-05:002017-08-01T20:42:06.092-05:00New Hurtles on our JourneyThe past few months Baby C and I have been battling a new hurdle for me... <a href="http://santabarbaralactation.com/blog/tongue-tie-what-do-parents-need-know" id="id_adcc_817a_ff73_34c0">Tongue Tie...</a> <div>Seriously! What's next? Thankfully I have a very supportive partner and that has made all the difference with all of the hurdles that have come my way.</div><div>A few months ago I was getting a little worried about Baby C's weight gain. I kept looking for the fat rolls that weren't coming. I looked at pictures of his siblings at his age and noticed Baby K didn't have any rolls then either, which should have been more of a warning since she has a lip tie. Around this time I also noticed a groin hernia and he seemed to be a bit fussy. We went into the Ped to discover that at 2 months he had only gained 1 lb since birth. </div><div><br><img id="id_91f0_c9b6_4ab7_d0bf" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-YqDeYun-PsI/WYEoUc5tsxI/AAAAAAAAEKo/z2INtPylvu8bia4yi3yoNvS5mWMKRMQUgCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 305px; height: auto;"><br><br><br></div><div>This sent us both into a panic, so much so that her first suggestion was to put him on formula. She knows me, and knows how I feel about formula. I also knew that my milk was not the issue. I called the <a href="http://lalecheleague.org" id="id_8297_c476_d0a8_eb26">IBCLC</a> that day and set up an appointment. Until we could meet I "Triple Fed", this meant feeding one side while pumping the other, swapping sides and then bottle feeding whatever was pumped. This was a long exhausting process. Especially with the older 3 running around and attempting to get school work done. At one point I actually broke my hand pump, and once I had my old electric double pump.. I was attached to the wall for at 15-30minutes every 3-4 hours. </div><div>I met the IBCLC at the Pediatric Dentist's office where both confirmed the tie. Baby C was diagnosed with a Stage 3 Posterior Tounge Tie. He wasn't getting much milk transfer from latching and would spit up much of what he did get. </div><div>The Dentist suggested we go see a Speech Therapist for evaluation and therapies for the tie, which was made easier since Lil C already has weekly therapies. Baby C was also getting weekly weight checks and his weight had been slowly increasing thanks to the triple feeds, but the stress and exhaustion of the feeds did make me consider formula a few times. </div><div><img id="id_9463_923a_8307_60c8" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-eO5I-tZh_64/WYEoQcgBtcI/AAAAAAAAEKk/PlDuT8ENgoIj5xRFQbqzXPAl2GHW4KoFQCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><br></div><div>Meanwhile we had the appointment about his hernia. The Surgon didn't really see a tie but assured me that he could do that too when he did the repair. Good news right? Instead of being awake he could be asleep and we could deal with all the painful stuff at once.</div><div>After he came out of the hernia repair the surgon informed me that he had had 2 hernia (both now repaired) and that he couldn't get a Pediatric ENT to come look, but the plastic surgeon looked at it and he didn't think it looked like a tie either, so he didn't clip it. I almost broke down in tears. I informed him that his problem wasn't length but that it was to thick. "Besides he doesn't have any weight gain issue." I managed not to smack him. But I all but yelled at him that he was only gaining weight due to the triple feeds. He suggested we see a pediatric ENT or a Speech Therapist. When I told him we had seen a Pediatric dentist and a Speech Therapist he asked what she said.. and when I curtly replied that she confirmed it... well the look on his face can only be described as "Cat got your tounge" </div><div>After Baby C healed from the repair I was hoping he had gotten big enough and strong enough (like Baby K did) that he didn't need all the triple feeds, I started slacking.. and at his weight check, his weight had slowed way down. So I scheduled the clip with the Pediatric Dentist. </div><div>He didn't fuss to much and for the first time he fully drained me and barely spit up. Plus the spit up was mostly clear. Since the repair a week ago he has gained 1 lb and gotten back on the growth curve. His spit-ups aren't every feeding and most of the feeding anymore. And best of all, he finally has fat rolls. </div><div><img id="id_8294_8f42_e31d_7b89" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-0OGZMjfVhJ4/WYEoUxt8nwI/AAAAAAAAEKs/ZcI-HoCq1jA28tajxSRro6I2AsGsRTlLgCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br><img id="id_4a3b_bb0c_7d4b_3f47" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-393edR0iO8s/WYEt7Tn_zJI/AAAAAAAAELA/3CVh1QB2oMchMU83Uqt2uRdsI1--tC3FQCHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br>Happy World Breastfeeding Week Ya'll! </div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-92006379109810578112017-07-13T14:27:00.001-05:002017-07-14T06:05:25.976-05:00And baby makes 6Those who have been following on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/southernfrog/" id="id_6650_fad5_fe1e_300e">Instagram</a> have been aware of my pregnancy and birth, but there is much more to the story. <img id="id_4598_c7d_47f_2660" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-KPtx0d9u_lc/WUnwrBkweFI/AAAAAAAAEI8/uT7E786fEmkewhQ3cOdqq_GlTHUcJNyJQCHMYCw/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"> <div>My pregnancy went fairly well with the complications of my history with <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2010/07/birth-story.html" id="id_8680_c017_ef6d_5382">1</a> <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2012/04/family-of-4.html" id="id_eca5_4075_a279_99e5">2</a> and <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2015/02/eviction-number-three.html?m=1" id="id_79c_3a95_273c_c631">3</a> plus I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes and later got a positive strep B test. </div><div>This time I had a new doctor and a new hospital. Both were "VBAC friendly" which is more difficult to find due to my history. I did get one key bit of information that I had never been told before. My new OB told me to get a Doula. "Hospitals don't take VBACs seriously without a Doula". It was like a key clicking into place, although my husband did not understand it. <a href="https://hattiesburgnaturalbirth.com" id="id_c6a2_98bc_759f_ee32">My Doula</a> requires her clients to take Bradley birth classes, which my husband wasn't to happy about either. It became our weekly night-off from the kids and allowed the kids to get used to my parents putting them to bed. I learned a ton that I didn't realize I didn't know going into the class, with the exclusion of the breastfeeding class.. there I just tried to keep my answers short to be polite to the IBCLC guest speaker. 😉</div><div></div><div>Around 3am on a Thursday morning the contractions started. When they talk about how you can't sleep through them... they aren't kidding. I got no sleep once they started. They would wake me up and then by the time I would get my brain calmed to try and get back to sleep.. the next one would start. </div><div>At around 5am, I gave up and just got up. I tried to wait a bit but spent most of the morning clutching the couch through contractions. Then I texted my sister, who had herself done 40 hours completely natural. Laboring was a first for me. </div><img id="id_feea_7de6_efb9_4eab" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-cfE9Ll52uM0/WOF2LArkhtI/AAAAAAAAEBk/QKbzp-IN9fo/%25255BUNSET%25255D.png" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><div>I wasn't able to wait until 8:30 to call my Dad though.. only until 7:30 shortly after one of the kids sat on my head during a contraction... that was.. unpleasant. Unfortunately this did also set off my mom's worry. Around this same time I texted my Doula and one of the ladies from church to start the prayer chain, since I am high risk after all. </div><div>Soon after my father came and picked up the kids, followed by my sister's arrival. This allowed me to snack a little and get a shower. My contractions did calm down and space out a bit at this time. It was very nice to have her there as psychological support and she knew just what to say to keep me from worrying about everyone else. </div><div>I was able to get dressed before my doula got there. I kept hugging the couch during contractions until she suggested trying to sit upright on the ball, which did seem to intensify the contractions but they still hadn't got into a regular pattern. Our goal was to get me into a regular pattern and late stage labor before I went in to the hospital. Due to my history we knew that we would want to be at the hospital as soon as possible after my labor broke and for transition. </div><div> After laboring that way for a bit we went in my room and tried the peanut ball for over an hour, but because I had been awake so early, I kept yawning. The doula said that I should try and get a nap since I was obviously tired to be yawning during labor. 😝</div><div>After a short nap I joined everyone back in the living room and the contractions became much more regular. It was very obvious that the nap was needed. I did most of my contracting on the ball. We did try a bit of leaning on the ball and my doula did a bit of hip squeeze and hot rice pack, which was nice. Shortly around this time I went to the bathroom and saw a little blood which actually made us a bit excited (once I got over the shock and my doula assured me it was my "bloody show") </div><div>At one point I laid down on our loveseat to try to labor in that position for a bit.. and then my water broke. This one was very different from when my water broke with Lil'K which felt like a popping balloon and someone else peeing in my pants. This felt more like a snapping and spiking pain. The flow from it was much faster as well. At this point everyone went into hurried mode... except me. The pain greatly increased and I could only move at a snail pace. My doula worried about the couch, but thankfully when my mom re-upholstered it for me she had added a waterproof layer. Which is why I picked that couch to try and side-lay on. Once we were in the car my husband and I had to try and figure out where I had put the OB's number so we could call her and let her know we were on our way so she could meet us. I really didn't want any other OB to deliver me since I have had such poor experiences with OBs. </div><div>During the drive my pain steadily increased and never fully went away. Every contraction the pain level increased. I told my husband that this must be transition since it was so intense. I was clinging to my Boppy and trying to find the least painful position while staying in the seatbelt. It is also the first time I have tried to get my husband to drive faster. The pain was so intense that I told him I finally understood why someone would choose a c-section. Humming was the only thing I could do to temper the pain. This is when I started suspecting something wasn't right. </div><div>When we finally arrived at the hospital parking lot my Doula and sister both came to my door but I was in the middle of a contraction and could not move. I just clung to my sister for a minute until the contraction subsided and I could shuffle my way to the door. </div><div>I was asked if I needed a wheelchair and quickly accepted. Shortly before or after that I had another contraction and clung onto my sister, which is where my Doula suspected I was rupturing. After I got in the chair I clutched my Boppy in front of me and was pushed into the L&D department, I think my husband was pushing me but I am not sure. I vaguely remember my Doula explaining my case to the nurses. I do remember seeing my OB's face and being very releaved to see her there. I was taken in the room but could not move much. I could only stand to be on all fours. The nurses had to put my monitors on with me in this position. At this point I was clinging to the hope that all the pain was my cervix opening since I had never experienced it before. <img id="id_53cb_9981_59e_266f" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-m82kWVtzGJQ/WVUN3-n6PeI/AAAAAAAAEJU/dQa69adjs_8lCJWXckpcoUJWFiLDso3yACHMYCw/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"> </div><div>My OB did have me turn over to check my cervix, all of us hoping that I was just having intense transition but all of us suspecting that I wasn't. At this point I was thinking clearly but unable to speak due to the intense pain. When she checked I was only 4cm and at every contraction his heart rate would dip to 50. The three of us all knew that I needed the c-section but being unable to speak I consented to the section via sign language. Which ended up simplifying to a thumbs up because everyone else's sign language needs work. 😜</div><div>Signing the consent form was probably the worst signiture I have ever written. </div><div>Shortly after my bed was pushed down the hall leaving my Doula, sister and husband behind, this was the first time in our 10 years together that he was afraid for my life. All I was thinking was for them to hurry and knock me out, just knock me out. </div><div>When in the OR I had to transfer to the operating table. The anisesheologust at my head putting the mask on me telling me to breathe slowly. I am trying to breathe deeply because I want to be out quickly. My OB was at my side and there was a fury of movement around the OR. </div><div>When I woke back in the room 3 hours later I asked my sister if I still had my overies, because I was worried about going into menopause. Baby C was on my chest trying to snuggle and nurse. </div><img id="id_56df_1cb0_546a_9041" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Me8Zjqkpiic/WVUN3ugkSeI/AAAAAAAAEJQ/sbADSzklOBQVSlR-FoAOB5t1xDtw3IhnACHMYCw/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"> <div>But there were some complications and it took a few days to piece together what had happened. </div><div>Apparently after <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2015/02/eviction-number-three.html?m=1" id="id_590f_d04a_ff14_8429">Baby K's</a> scheduled section my bladder had adheared to my uterus. During the pregnancy it had slowly stretched along with my uterus to the point that it was underneath my belly button. I suspect the rupture began when my water broke and continued to expand with each contraction. In the OR I had the classic "double bump" of a rupture. Once she opened me up she had to pause for a second to try and figure out what she was seeing. My uterus and bladder had split so much that Baby C was in my bladder up to his shoulders. She cut the other side of my bladder and pulled Baby C all the way through. He was checked and brought to my husband. Which was the second time he has ever been afraid for my life. The nurses said Baby C was the most vigorous section baby they had ever seen. <img id="id_2390_bcd6_c10d_5059" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-cDHRD67AknY/WVUN4G-G1jI/AAAAAAAAEJY/wuMpNbWVPXUBEsmZS9nKSfHjX-T-KkONgCHMYCw/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"> </div><div>Around this time they called the urology surgeon from surgery at another local hospital. They had to pause that surgery and he came over to put me back together. He said he had never seen anything like it. </div><div>I had to use a cath bag for 2 weeks to allow my bladder to heal. Unfortunately the clots from the healing clogged it up a few times and had to be irrigated. The spasms that accompanied the clots were almost as painful as the rupture. This did require an extra speeding run to the hospital where we left Baby C behind and my mom followed with him. I ended up "walking" into the ER crying for help when the clot suddenly broke loose and I just broke down crying. They had to flush out the clots and sent me home. The clots and accompanying spasms were as painful as the rupture. I am very glad to be rid of it.</div><div>Although I went through all of that, I would do it again. This has been the first time I have not required PPD meds. I only had a slight "baby blues" and had the meds "just in case" in my medicine cabinet. I think the laboring truly made the difference. We do know that the laboring did save our lives. The contractions woke him up and put him near the surface. Either way my bladder would have been cut open but I likely would have bled more, had a full bladder and they would have had to find/get to my womb beneath/around my bladder. Surprisingly I didn't really hemorage and only lost the same amount of blood as a normal section. They did expect me to lose more so had the fluids wide open, which made my feet really swollen and that took a few weeks to go down to normal. Of all of my deliveries, it was the least psychologically traumatic, which should say something about the previous two. This time I was the decision maker, not someone to be "handled" or talked down to. I was treated as an intelligent respected adult by my OB. The way she treated me has made all the difference in my emotional state post delivery. Shouldn't that be how it is? </div><div><img id="id_9691_171d_6f3c_28cb" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-2u7mLQfFMlk/WWfJt-30_1I/AAAAAAAAEKQ/byWFKCRDbs0tLTHB02kEKo8RmXg3mxtgACHMYCw/s5000/%255BUNSET%255D" alt="" title="" tooltip="" style="width: 353px; height: auto;"><br>Watch for more pics of Baby C and all the toadlets on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/southernfrog/" id="id_d5c_7999_ca1c_672a">Instagram</a>. </div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-54891988342505101492015-07-03T20:54:00.000-05:002015-07-03T20:54:06.001-05:00Surviving the NICU: with your marriageNICU parents face so many struggles. Fear, hurt, understanding, knowledge, patience and so much more. <br />
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One area that is frequently forgotten.. Is marrage. So much time and energy is placed on dealing with the medical and the sick baby that the relationship between mom and dad can get forgotten or placed on the back burner for far to long. NICU parents have a very high divorce rate, most places state 97% (some say as low as 90, but I can't find any studies). Also aparently the longer you are in the NICU.. The higher the risk, we were in 175 days. </div>
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So what can you do about it? The first thing is to be aware. You have to know a struggle is there to be able to battle it. </div>
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We have watched many of our NICU friends separate after spending time in the NICU. We are currently 5 years out from our NICU time but still have the "special needs child" risk which is also high (although it may be a <a href="http://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ848190.pdf">myth</a>!<span style="color: black;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">)</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">. </span></div>
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Our marrage and ourselves are far from perfect, and we both admit that. </div>
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<b>Avoid blame!:</b></div>
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This is very important. <span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> Daddy C could blame me for the heart condition (since I was on clomid and heart conditions run in my family). We could blame each other for the Pre-Eclampsia since that is in both our families. We could nit-pick back and forth about what we could have done diffrently to change the outcome, but none of this is helpful. It mearly creates strife and division. This also includes trying not to blame yourself, if there is nothing you can do about it now, then it is not helpful. Use your time and energy to focus on what you CAN do, such as googling what you can do to improve long term outcomes and/or pumping. </span></div>
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Just like in every marrage you should develop a team mentality. The tasks you divide up will be NICU specific issues, but need to be geared toward each of your strengths. I like to have information so I did (and still do!) most of the communicating with the doctors and nurses. I keep track of meds, history and goals. My husband is better at dealing with emotionally charged situations or where our son has to do something that will be painful. For example I would step out of the NICU during eye exams and my husband would stay with him. He is also the one who usually holds him during IVs. We even worked as a team when it came to pumping, in the early days he would deliver the tiny syringes of milk. Later he would take the night pumpings to the fridge and carry the frozen milk to the NICU when they needed a fresh supply. He also took on the job of cleaning and sanitizing the pump.<br />
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When you are having baby time, take turns. We would swap turns at each care time, I would get the first turn of the day and he usually got the last (I need more sleep). When it came time to do kangaroo care, we swapped then too. When we had only one per day, I got it because I needed it to help me keep/build my supply (except for Father's Day, which was my gift), but when we went up to two, he got the second. Then I the third and so on.<br />
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About once a month or so, we would miss one care (so hard!) to go on a date night. Sometimes it was just a meal, but Daddy C is a movie geek, so going to a movie meant a lot for him. Whatever works for ya'll. Our first date night was a few weeks in when our church youth group went to a concert in the city that our NICU was in and took us along. It was their way of getting us out of the NICU for a few hours. Lil'C was having a good day, so we went. I still remember it fondly and am glad we went. </div>
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<b>Strengthen the foundation: </b></div>
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A weak foundation is hard on any marriage, but being in a highly stressful situation such as the NICU can really exasperate any weak areas. We have done a few "marriage courses" over the years, even before we were pregnant. We both hold firmly to the idea that there is always room for improvement any ANY marriage and that NO marriage is perfect. No "happily ever after" princess here., "I Do" is a starting gun not a finish line. </div>
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<u>A few we have liked:<i> </i></u></div>
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<i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0785264698/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0785264698&linkCode=as2&tag=froinsti-20&linkId=LJM4FFTFKYUAXI3V">Captivating</a></i> and <i><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Discovering-Secret-Mans/dp/0785268839/ref=as_sl_pc_ss_til?tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=w01&linkId=LV4ERKG7WLQQJZK4&creativeASIN=0785268839">Wild at Heart</a> (</i>not marriage per say but helps you understand your own weaknesses, highly suggest it first)</div>
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<i><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Languages-Chapman-Northfield-Publishing-Paperback/dp/B00DWWBFVG/ref=as_sl_pc_ss_til?tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=w01&linkId=PVLMDWBOZ6UTEOWE&creativeASIN=B00DWWBFVG">The five love languages</a></i> </div>
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<i><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Prepare-Last-Creating-Marriage-Leaders/dp/4931585086/ref=as_sl_pc_ss_til?tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=w01&linkId=KJ46MHRA7KQGM3A3&creativeASIN=4931585086">Prepare to last</a> </i>(We did this in a church group)</div>
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<i><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fireproof-Your-Marriage-Couples-Kit/dp/0978715373/ref=as_sl_pc_ss_til?tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=w01&linkId=6DXQOBSR24C7YAV4&creativeASIN=0978715373">Fireproof</a></i> (in process) </div>
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I have also read blogs (Pinterest!) and books when we run into an issue.</div>
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I like the book <i><a href="https://www.amazon.com/The-Surrendered-Wife-Practical-Intimacy-ebook/dp/B000FC0V4S/ref=as_sl_pc_ss_til?tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=w01&linkId=JO2K2Q2POPMGKEJI&creativeASIN=B000FC0V4S">The Surrendered Wife</a></i>, even though I hate the title and don't agree completely but I think she makes some valid points. </div>
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I love finding free kindle books (even if I don't fully agree with the author, I usually find a new perspective.) They change frequently, so search.</div>
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<b>Fix the finances:</b></div>
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The #1 cause of divorce is money trouble.. Or fighting about finances. And NICU time is EXPENSIVE, and with therapies, Doctor appointments and being medically fragile.. It doesn't get much better. So I highly suggest <a href="http://www.daveramesy.com/">Dave Ramesy</a>. We had already read some of his books and we also were gifted his <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ramseys-Financial-Peace-University-Membership/dp/1934629103/ref=as_sl_pc_ss_til?tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=w01&linkId=ECOJ72POADISGYKB&creativeASIN=1934629103">financial peace class</a>, and that seriously brought some peace. We have WAY less arguments in our home now and we are on <a href="http://www.daveramsey.com/new/baby-steps/">Baby Step 2</a>, we have a way to go but we are getting there! </div>
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I hope these tips help strengthen your marriage and your marriage defies the odds just like your little one!</div>
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-35484729964092201872015-02-06T22:32:00.000-06:002015-02-06T22:32:57.379-06:00Eviction Number ThreeI know it has been over 6 months since my last post.. It has taken me this long to hopefully be able to complete this post. <br />
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On July 14 I went in for a very much unwanted scheduled C-section. My OB was going out of town and there was no other OB in the area that I even slightly trusted to even touch me, much less deliver my baby. I was angry and dreading the surgery, seriously not how you should feel when looking to meeting your child.<br />
My sister was my "doula" and my husband was also there. When we got there we realized we had not taken any "bump" pictures, so we took some quickly. <br />
We went in and found out they had given away my room because they expected us to arrive at 8am, while my Dr had told us to arrive at anytime.. I immediately wanted to leave. The nurse seemed a bit angry that we were "late", my sister stepped out of the room where she went to the nurses station and politely (from what I was told) and explained that we were a hospital family and I really did not want to be having the section, but was not given a choice in the matter. <br />
We waited in the prep room, next to a woman in actual labor with the nurse and my sister telling jokes to keep my mind off of it. We kept being told "a few more minutes" "uh oh.. someone got pushed ahead" so I didn't actually go back until 3. That gave us enough time for them to eat and my sister to braid my hair since I knew it would be a little while until I would be able to shower. <br />
We went over my birth plan <a href="http://birthwithoutfearblog.com/2012/09/18/a-family-centered-cesarean-birth-plan/">(I used this one as a starting point and adjusted it for us)</a> and they assured us that they would attempt to accommodate our wishes. I swear they thought I was the crazy natural mama up for the section, but after my sister's talk with the nurses they were all really kind to us, almost pitying.<br />
When I finally went back I was scared and worried the entire time. I really hate getting epidurals... the cold room, the pain, the worry that if they slip up I could be paralyzed, spinal headaches... etc. Then I was staring at the same ceiling tiles as I was at <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2012/04/family-of-4.html">Lil'K's delivery</a> and thinking that if that Dr hadn't been an idiot then I wouldn't be forced to do this section..<br />
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My hubby came in and was allowed to look over the curtain and my sister stood at the door, both got to watch my uterus pulled out, while I looked at the bugs inside the florescent lights. There was the usual pushing and tugging and to do a "delayed" cord clamping they laid her on my legs and did whatever else it is for as long as they could until the placenta began to separate. Then they cut the cord, and brought her to me so we could skin to skin. Unfortunately, due to the epidural I had weakness in my arms and had trouble moving them. My husband was not by my side at this moment and I have no idea why. The neonatologist had to help me adjust her because her face was in my neck. <br />
She was cleaned up and hubby got to trim the cord, which was actually a first for us. He stayed with her until she was reunited with me in the room. I of course was numb and unable to move my legs for many hours. I remember them doing the final clean up and after they removed the curtian being shocked that my legs weren't straight like I thought they were. When I was back in the room my hubby was able to stay with me, and my parents brought Lil'C and Lil'K to meet their new baby sister, Baby K. They both wanted to climb on my lap and cuddle but we of course had to be careful since I couldn't move or feel if they were hurting me. <br />
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After the epidural wore off enough I was able to get around a bit, very very slowly. Baby K did end up having some trouble with holding her temperature and there was talk of putting her in a warmer. First I grabbed my sling and stuck her on me, where she stayed the rest of the time there.. even at night. That is something I would only do in a hospital setting since the nurses come in frequently and I am an experienced co-sleeper. Still worried me but her temperature stayed 1/2 a degree from mine for the rest of our stay.<br />
The biggest worry I had was going home, and being home most of the day by myself with 3 little ones while healing from the surgery. Due to Lil'K's affinity for flopping, that did become a worry. She landed on me once so hard that I screamed and my sister had to pull her off. I was in tears it hurt so bad.. and I was on pain meds at the time. <br />
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I do wonder if I could have done it differently, my scar was thinning but that isn't a huge deal. If only I had been allowed to attempt a VBAC with Lil'K then maybe I would have been able to do the same with Baby K. The crazy part is that the risk levels of a VBAC at Lil'K is less of a risk than a 3rd section and they knew I wanted a third child. It just feels unethical to me and a bit crazy. <br />
My post-pain is worse now as well. My scar is in almost constant pain along with my upper right thigh, there is also some numbing at the upper part of it (the pain goes around the edges of the numbing). It just all feels so unnecessary and a bit unfair to my girls and myself. So now I have had one <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2010/07/birth-story.html">necessary and life saving</a> c-section, and two unnecessary ones.<br />
Baby K is growing and is a very happy little person, for that I am blessed.<br />
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-75902332047879073812014-07-14T11:00:00.000-05:002014-07-14T11:00:06.592-05:00Scheduled EvictionBy time this posts I will be going to have major surgery. Those of you who follow me on <a href="http://instagram.com/southernfrog">Instagram</a> know that I am 9 months pregnant with our third child Baby K. I haven't posted much for two reasons: 1. We didn't know we were expecting until the second trimester, 2. Pregnancy kinna freaks me out since for me it is a potentially life threatening situation. I really avoid thinking about it, and the closer we get to the section tomorrow, the more frightened I become. My PTSD has really been acting up and I know it will come to a head tomorrow in the OR. <br />
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Due to where I live and finances my options are extremely limited. I'm actually a bit jealous of some of the mom's in my special scars <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/394689410782/">group</a> who have VBAC supportive hospitals, and a VBAC supportive OB/midwife. I actually found the most VBAC supportive OB in the area but the hospital he delivers at has a strict anti-VBAC policy. I searched the area for a midwife but couldn't find one, even though I doubt we would have been able to afford one anyway. The closer we have gotten to the section date the more I understand why some women choose unassisted home births, but I feel that is far to risky in my situation. </div>
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One of the things that many of the Special Scars women face is a OB who says they are VBAC friendly and then switch at the last minute. I seem to have accidentally done the opposite with my OB. He asked me what the goal was and I told him that I wanted to go into labor on my own. Which is the least of what I wanted to do. I also wanted a trial-of-labor and optimum being a VBAC. Due to my <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2010/07/birth-story.html">history</a> I know that induction is far to risky so I would have to go into labor on my own within the next 20 hours to do that, which feels very unlikely. I know many just say, don't show up tomorrow (including DH) but the problem with that is that my OB is going out of town and if I did go into labor I would be forced to use one of his partners... And that didn't go so well <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2012/04/family-of-4.html">last time</a>.... </div>
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I really think OBs should do a round of pediatrics during their med school training, there is one thing that pediatrics do better than any other division of the medical field.. Psychology in medicine. Pediatrics remembers that how a patient feels, effects how they heal and must be taken into account. I think OBs are frequently the worst. A mom is seen strictly as a problem to be solved: get the kid out. So many women are ending up like myself with traumatic births because of it. Getting the kid out isn't the end of the equation. </div>
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I actually pointed this out to my OB the other day. After I am delivered, I will have to go home and care for 3 small children all alone. Sure I have a supportive husband who will help when he is home, but he doesn't (nor could we afford) paternity leave. My 4 year old (Lil'C) will still need to go to therapy, or risk loosing it. He frequently needs to be carried, and picked up since he falls a lot. My 2 year old (Lil'K) will still want to play and "flop" on my belly. She also frequently fights getting in her car seat, to the point that it takes holding her down with all my weight to get her in it. Plus I will have all of the newborn duties and normal house keeping duties to keep up with. A VBAC would mean that this wouldn't change much, but a RCS means that I can't drive or lift anything heavier than a milk jug for at least two weeks or risk opening my incision and bleeding or worse. OBs frequently forget to take such things into account, and hospital lawyers never do. </div>
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One extra bit of "fun" is that Baby K's placenta is directly on top of Lil'C's scar. This means that it could have grown into the scar putting me at an increased risk of hemorrhage and possible historectomy... Yeah that is what every 31year old wants.. A <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">historectomy</span>...</div>
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I have done research on this and I truly feel that a VBAC would actually be safer, if Baby K were placed imedeately on my chest and allowed to nurse with delayed cord clamping. If the placenta were allowed to release on its own since nursing would help close the blood vessels and lower the risk of hemorrhage. </div>
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But because of some hospital policy I am forced to have major abdominal surgery which puts me at risk for not only hemorrhage and historectomy, but blood clots (seizure/stroke), paralysis (epidural), and death.. And a section has been shown to increase the risk of asthma, allergies and immunie issues as well as actually change a babies DNA in the process.. </div>
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I know the VBAC would also have the risk of rupture at somewhere between 4 and 7% (some Drs clame as high as 10, but research (http://www.specialscars.org/index.php/studies/) does not support it. IF I ruptured Baby K and I could possibly both die, but that is a small percentage of that. </div>
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I really wish OBs and hospitals would consider more than getting the kid out when thinking of these unethical policies. I think these policies are why more and more women are choosing unassisted home births. </div>
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I think if politicians would push to have more midwives (registered) to be allowed/encouraged to do hospital births (especially in cases like mine) then our maternal death rate (the highest in the developed world!) would drop and so would unassisted home births. Instead midwives in some states are prosecuted for attending women like myself... Which leads to mom's feeling like unassisted home birth is the only option.. It really needs to change. </div>
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Hopefully all will go well tomorrow.. But prayers/happy thoughts would be appreciated :) </div>
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-74704831482135703222014-07-08T07:05:00.001-05:002014-07-21T16:47:23.129-05:00Easter Clothes!<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1YHDrctujZXCUQB4PzVH1zL1mZEDkhuwqtQIKZKiHj05AQDaymkPxZ6QpHqUbYPYjKI_oDfeRCM_4ZEl9dqFUOScZarZl9kEvbNI9-_gvbpelnXAjf1qwh-NyfZWTNp1wOqrTMOK8_5U/s640/blogger-image--773696957.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1YHDrctujZXCUQB4PzVH1zL1mZEDkhuwqtQIKZKiHj05AQDaymkPxZ6QpHqUbYPYjKI_oDfeRCM_4ZEl9dqFUOScZarZl9kEvbNI9-_gvbpelnXAjf1qwh-NyfZWTNp1wOqrTMOK8_5U/s640/blogger-image--773696957.jpg"></a></div>Here is our Easter outfits from this year!<div><br></div><div>My sister picked up 5.5 yards of fabric in one of her adventures. </div><div>It has a small floral print. <div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpkUHeIEaYO0Hoy0iAp-YOwnciH7h-2sE6yq8SL3NLAg2g6GBgKudU8MH_MVw7sSE0HMqUsjY_bjLijUjKqtvH14nxJZ8d_aSOdY3bELdn7ekWQtHhKl7thYK1hHpgFKDuPBLybNl2F0s/s640/blogger-image--700787239.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpkUHeIEaYO0Hoy0iAp-YOwnciH7h-2sE6yq8SL3NLAg2g6GBgKudU8MH_MVw7sSE0HMqUsjY_bjLijUjKqtvH14nxJZ8d_aSOdY3bELdn7ekWQtHhKl7thYK1hHpgFKDuPBLybNl2F0s/s640/blogger-image--700787239.jpg"></a></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">For Hubby:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"> I made a skinny tie using this tutorial: <span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://www.purlbee.com/the-purl-bee/2009/5/21/mollys-sketchbook-fathers-day-tie.html</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I had to add about 3" overall to the pattern since my husband prefers long ties. When I make the pattern again I will also make it wider. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">He wore his charcoal grey suit, a white shirt and silver cufflinks from my little brother's wedding</span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><br></span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">For Lil'C:</span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">I made a bow tie using this tutorial:</span></font><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://brittanyestes.com/2013/07/diy-bow-tie.html</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I threaded and stitched elastic through the back and added a snap on the ends of the elastic. I always worry about things around his neck getting caught especially since he still falls a lot. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">It was a good easy pattern, but Lil'C is fairly small so when I use the pattern again, I will make it slightly smaller. I will probably shrink it by about 25%. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">Lil'K also likes the tie and has frequently worn it as a head-band/bow :)</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">Lil'C also wore his charcoal dress pants, white shirt and light grey suspenders from my little brother's wedding. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">For Lil'K: </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">For Lil'K's dress I used this tutorial and pattern: </span><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://whatsmummyupto.blogspot.com.au/2014/03/tutorial-summer-frills-dress.html</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I really liked it and will be making her some more. There were a few confusing parts on the tutorial about which pieces should be cut for the bonace so read over it carefully and make sure it works right. I also wish I had stitched the straps to the lining before putting it together so that I could have used a 1" overlay to make it more secure. I have had to re-stitch the straps twice because Lil'K plays hard and has managed to pull them out of the seam. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I also added a gross-grain ribbon to the bottom of the bonace allowing about a foot to hang free at the sides so I can tie it in a bow on the back. I think it really finished it off, making it a good church dress instead of a sun dress. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">The bow came from my MIL shortly after Lil'K was born. It really pulled the pink flowers out of the fabric. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">For Me:</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I used this tutorial and pattern as a starting point: </span><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://verdantbents.blogspot.ca/2012/04/make-your-own-easy-top.html</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I absolutely love this pattern! I'm planning on making quite a few tops from it soon. I already have the fabric for it, I just had to wait until I no longer had a baby bump to do it :) Due to the elasticized neck line it works GREAT as a nursing top without looking like one. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">The tutorial is written as a top but all I Did to make it a dress was to add some length and with. I measured from below my bust until the widest part of me (which was belly at the time, but normally would be hip). Measure around widest part and divide by 4 and then add 1-2" for ease. I added about 3" to make room for belly growth. Then curve slightly down and to your desired length. Make sure the curve is smooth or you will end up with box hips! </span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">The lining in the tutorial I cut off at knee length and simply surged the bottom of it. </span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">I then took the ruffle piece from Lil'K's dress and cut out 4 pieces. I put that on my dress the same way I did Lil'K's to create a little echo between our dresses and a nice finished hem. </span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">I also added the same ribbon from Lil'K's dress at the side seam of my dress right at the under-bust elastic. Hubby suggested it since before the back was really plain and it needed to be broken up visually. I think it really finishes it off and gives the appearance that the ribbon runs through the under-bust casing.</span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">When I make this pattern again I'm going to bring the neckline up an inch because it feels to low where I have it. Having it that close to the under-bust elastic also makes my chest look smaller... Which for me isn't a good thing. </span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">I suggest using this tutorial to figure out where you want your neckline: </span></font><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://3hourspast.com/2012/04/07/at-long-last-how-to-mess-around-with-a-neckline-without-getting-burned/</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">It is certainly what I should have done! </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">I will also take the outer shoulders and bring them down about 1/4-1" because they have the tendency to slide off and have to be pinned to my bra to keep them in place. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_AQuV8JJIuRPdx8uQcLnHZj3wUa0ba9k6vrYTRATzZOXpUbjiLh4lgowfRFgYscQS3Wi1zZ2d1adS-n14YFM-ueCsLFT_FubclUJg3019MMK_Gn_ODoLMClhQlEsQnks_61TS9_gqLGY/s640/blogger-image--912520327.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_AQuV8JJIuRPdx8uQcLnHZj3wUa0ba9k6vrYTRATzZOXpUbjiLh4lgowfRFgYscQS3Wi1zZ2d1adS-n14YFM-ueCsLFT_FubclUJg3019MMK_Gn_ODoLMClhQlEsQnks_61TS9_gqLGY/s640/blogger-image--912520327.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">For Baby K:</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">Due to how much fabric my sistergor me, I still have some left over! I'm going to use some of the left over fabric and the following tutorial to make a matching dress for Baby K now that she has arrived! : </span></font><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://www.jessiestreetdesigns.blogspot.com/2012/02/pinterest-challenge.html</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;">I may also make her a pink bow to match Lil'K. </span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font face="Helvetica"><span style="font-size: 12px;"><br></span></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;"><br></span></div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-20095615702628849022014-05-26T16:31:00.001-05:002014-05-26T16:31:51.387-05:00DIY O2 Tank transporter<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1Btpw-NPfJ27wWwbnXtnKnE-02Vxq_gCdGIxJmxWaxxQgAO_ajToY1NY3ortV2qb9JFNAOMnQdrAz0l9ONTNeec7UIoKgUOt-eSk-OYzuoDO48uUQlxkt-R0RCyzsLfbx1q8sh6JcfpY/s640/blogger-image--1702456517.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1Btpw-NPfJ27wWwbnXtnKnE-02Vxq_gCdGIxJmxWaxxQgAO_ajToY1NY3ortV2qb9JFNAOMnQdrAz0l9ONTNeec7UIoKgUOt-eSk-OYzuoDO48uUQlxkt-R0RCyzsLfbx1q8sh6JcfpY/s640/blogger-image--1702456517.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">It is a fairly simple thing to make. Hubby tweaked the design a few times, but now Lil'c barely uses O2 and we don't use it any more, which is why it is inside. We have used it in both a hatchback and a van. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">The Supplies: </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">PVC pipe (slightly smaller than the tanks so it will grip)</p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">3/4" plywood (measure from the floor to the top of the back of the backseat x width of the back of the backseat) </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Extra strip of 3/4" plywood 4"x needed length (only under small bottles) </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Tie-down straps (auto supplies) </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Spray paint </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">The process:</p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Cut large plywood to size. Notice the notches in the bottom to allow the tie-down straps to wrap around the back of the seat and hold it in place. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Cut PVC pipe to length and then make ONE additional cut down the length which will allow the pipe to expand and grip the tanks. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Screw PVC to the board making sure the vertical cut is facing out. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Screw the strip of plywood under the PVC for the smaller tanks. This will give them something to rest on, otherwise they will slide right through. The large tanks will simply sit on the floor. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Spray paint for appearance. We went with black since we had it on hand, or you could try and match your vehicle's interior. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Fairly simple process :). </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">This allowed us to make use of our full trunk space while easily being able to trade out tanks. You could easily tell the empty from the full by the white caps. We kept the small tank in use in the transport bag with its valve on and a valve on whichever large tank was currently in use. This allowed us to carry 8 small tanks (notice only 7 slots) and 2 large tanks wherever we needed to go, including 2 4-day trips to see family 14 hours away! On those trips we also brought along the concentrator and used it as much as possible to save our tanks. </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">Although I will tell you, driving around with that many tanks in the back can make you nervous of other people's driving, but it is certainly better than them rolling around if you are carrying them anyway! </p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">How many tanks have you had in your car at one time? </p></div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-34616904963401991242013-05-07T14:31:00.000-05:002013-05-07T14:31:53.299-05:00Pneumonia.. again.I'm such a slacker...<br />
I'm having camera issues, plus we are moving.. again, plus we had a nice 5 day hospital stay, days after reading <a href="http://www.kitchenstewardship.com/2013/03/20/do-you-know-two-crazy-symptoms-of-pneumonia-for-toddlers-home-remedies-to-kick-it-without-a-prescription/">this.</a>. I'm so behind.<br />
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So Lil'K got a runny nose, that came along with a lovely fever. As soon as she started showing symptoms.. we made sure our Emergency bags were prepped and ready to go, we knew it was only a matter of time until Lil'C would get it too.<br />
Two days later he started showing symptoms. The day after that she had a nice fever and he went into the 100s (at night) so we called the Ped and had them seen (Monday). They were both rather chipper at the appointment and Lil'C's lungs were pretty clear with mild "crackling" (yes, that is a medical term) in his upper lungs. By Wednesday Lil'C's fever had spiked to 103.8 (again at night) and his runny nose had turned green, Lil'K was almost finished with a very slight clear runny nose. Her's had actually never changed colors. By noon we were packing up and heading to the hospital, which took longer than expected since we were out of practice.<br />
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We had cranked his O2 up to 1.5L from .5 and when we got there they had to crank him up more. For a few days he was actually at 5L! He ended up needing steroids since it was a viral pneumonia. They also put him on antibiotics, even though they don't do anything for viral, to protect him from a secondary infection while his immune system was weak. <br />
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Thankfully this time it was only lungs and no heart issue.<br />
He had to have nebulizer treatment and something we had never had before... IPPB. If you have no clue what that is, like myself... It is kind of like a nebulizer except it oscillates. It sounds like a train and has to be held on tightly. Hubby had to hold down Lil'C for each treatment every 4 hours. We all hated it... but it worked. It broke up the gunk in his lungs and he went on the mend. <br />
So we now have a ton of meds, but he is feeling much better and getting back to his old self. His toes, fingers and lips have stopped turning purple when he pulls off his O2 for to long. He is also back to only wearing it when he sleeps, which is nice. <br />
We were also in the middle of potty training when all this hit and it kinna triggered a regression. We are slowly getting back to where we were. Speaking of which... does anyone have any hints for teaching a toddler to pull his own pants up and down when he has poor movement on one side?? <br />
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Seriously slacking on the blog..<br />
Lil'C is back to his normal O2 and meds. Although I added a probiotic (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000VV1EYO/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B000VV1EYO&linkCode=as2&tag=froinsti-20">this one</a>) once he got off the Antibiotic, thanks to a suggestion from <a href="http://www.kitchenstewardship.com/2013/04/05/how-to-take-hide-a-powdered-probiotic/">Kate</a>.. and I think he has really been needing one. I think he has been on so many really strong Antibiotics throughout his life that it has pretty much destroyed his gut flora. <br />
Since he started solids he has had trouble gaining weight. I'm thinking all of the antibiotics are part of the issue. Breastmilk naturally contains probiotics and whenever I would get serious about giving him yogurt he would gain some weight.. now with this probiotic he is obviously putting on weight and growing. He has chubby cheeks again, has finally outgrown all his 18mo (yes my 3yo has been wearing 18mo) clothes and is suddenly able to reach things he wasn't able to when we got back. It is really kinna crazy. I need to look at his discharge papers to see if I can find a height and weight to compare it too. <br />
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So... 2 Questions for all ya'll.... Any help on the potty training with a weak side? Have you seen a sudden health change after starting probiotics in someone you know (or yourself)? FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-84452015454047593932013-03-29T06:00:00.000-05:002013-03-29T06:00:10.793-05:00Montessori ish Trays<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-NsGlAYjBelYhAg3a92JZ52I3uHTh09GzUrjwXb7887vlyqtQ2sKNhAlrAwIVsmJXR5j-qCg7t8YOMsZK2VGQUMDKPPkLtqx7RhWPCH22ChlYbF2vtXhMuCNV7XII_rzvrya9uBkjJBE/s1600/100_2172.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="179" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-NsGlAYjBelYhAg3a92JZ52I3uHTh09GzUrjwXb7887vlyqtQ2sKNhAlrAwIVsmJXR5j-qCg7t8YOMsZK2VGQUMDKPPkLtqx7RhWPCH22ChlYbF2vtXhMuCNV7XII_rzvrya9uBkjJBE/s320/100_2172.JPG" width="320" /></a>So as you know I have two little geeklings: Lil'C and Lil'K. :)
One of our major parenting philosophies is to teach our children to longer need us. To make them self-sufficient. With Lil'C also having physical issues we find that even more important. We want him to be able to learn to do everything on his own and we push him to do so. We think that is part of why he is walking and doing all of the things he is now. So when we stumbled upon the <a href="http://montessori.org/">Montessori</a> <a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&ved=0CDUQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FMontessori_education&ei=eDJNUfuBDYza9QTQo4DYBQ&usg=AFQjCNE1FdQgMfFx9tcXJlOtSc9RMgNQ1Q&sig2=V7TFLDWvgcAaW8yY0VIAag&bvm=bv.44158598,d.eWU">Philosophy</a> it fit right in "Teach them to do it themselves." With Montessori the activities/lessons/work are placed on trays to keep them organized and help the students learn to care for their workspace. Montessori also pushes natural materials from what I understand and have read thus far, which is where these trays differ from the philosophy, but I think they are pretty which follows the philosophy :P
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What have you made with Duck Tape lately?FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-77086864352458756872013-03-22T23:00:00.001-05:002013-03-22T23:00:55.492-05:00Ugly PatternsHi ya!<br />
Have ya'll seen the <a href="http://www.simplesimonandco.com/2013/03/you-cant-judge-ugly-vintage-pattern-by.html">"You can't judge a pattern by it's cover"</a> <a href="http://www.simplesimonandco.com/">Series that Simple Simon & Co</a> are doing? Hillarious and SHOCKING!<br />
Seriously the Tulip swim suit bra??<br />
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You have got to see what she did with that one... I actually have the pattern she used to fix it... a project I have been meaning to do for my sister's youngest for a year now... oops... sorry sis.<br />
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To go along with their post I decided to post some of the patterns I can get to... Most of my lovies are packed as we are moving..... again...<br />
But I managed to root out a few. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Unisex... with embroidery patterns included... plaid. Best part... my Grandmother has notes on the back of this envelope... </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The giant flowers. the unflattering drape oh and that neckline... elastic.</td></tr>
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Got any ugly patterns in your stash? Share them on<a href="http://www.simplesimonandco.com/2013/03/you-cant-judge-ugly-vintage-pattern-by.html"> Simple Simon and Co</a> with me! :)FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-74701579482939853542013-02-11T21:33:00.000-06:002013-02-11T21:33:55.175-06:00The Emergency Hospital BagBack when DH and I were dating he introduced me to the concept of the emergency bag. He always kept one back in case of a sudden trip, mostly due to his mother's frequent illnesses. <br />
Today we keep them prepped for lil'c's frequent and sudden stays. <br />
Funny thing is that when Li'k was born... His bag wasn't ready :P<br />
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<b>Mine-</b><br />
Hair brush<br />
Loofa<br />
Toothbrush<br />
Toothpaste<br />
Shampoo, conditioner and body wash<br />
"happy" socks (cute/fluffy, wouldn't dare wear them elsewhere)<br />
Hair ties<br />
Hair brush<br />
Laundry/wet bag<br />
Bath robe<br />
Slip on shoes<br />
3 each of: shirt, undies, pants/skirt<br />
Laundry detergent<a href="http://www.crunchyclean.com/"></a> (cloth diapers, the one the hospital provides isn't good for them.)<br />
Make-up<br />
Sleep mask (fantastic for sleeping through the frequent comings and goings of nurses)<br />
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<b> Lil'c's </b><br />
Socks<br />
Small wet bag<br />
4 Flip covers (can easily be hand washed in a sink and dry quickly)<br />
6 receiving blankets (a great multi-use item, can be used as inserts for the flips and are also sink washable and dry quickly)<br />
Toy Dr kit<br />
PJ tops<br />
Snapping PJs/long jons<br />
Baby legs<br />
Pooh Bear<br />
Blanket<br />
Sleep mask<br />
Lidocaine (numbing for IVs, he is a very hard stick)<br />
Cortisone cream (he has issues with the electrodes)<br />
Stethoscope (we have tons..)<br />
Inflatable tub (our hospital only has showers and it can be moved into the bed/room if he can go to it)<br />
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<b>Li'k's</b><br />
3 sleep sacks (birth- 6 months), socks<br />
4 Flip diaper covers <br />
6 flip inserts<br />
6 receiving blankets<br />
Bibs<br />
Small fleece blanket<br />
Socks<br />
Hats<br />
Faux moby wrap (easier on the back for long term wearing)<br />
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<b>Diaper Bag</b><br />
Passies<br />
Snacks<br />
Bottle<br />
Wet bag<br />
Diapers<br />
Change of clothes<br />
Dinner mat<br />
Bibs<br />
Meds<br />
Smartipants<br />
Wipes<br />
Vicks vapor rub (numbs the skin for shots)<br />
Tums mints<br />
Mini first aid kit<br />
Small toy cars<br />
Ring- sling<br />
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Walker<br />
Boppy<br />
Car toy we call "bear-top" <br />
Bouncy seat<br />
Pillows<br />
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<b>Live in car-</b><br />
Stroller<br />
8 small O2 tanks and bag<br />
2 large O2 tanks<br />
Manual pump<br />
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Do you have an emergency bag? What do you keep in yours?FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-56812892064697969442013-01-18T14:20:00.003-06:002013-01-18T14:20:43.292-06:00How to support other NICU families<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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When Lil'C graduated from the NICU, we graduated as well. We became the parents of an "older" preemie. I believe it is one of those "with great power comes great responsibility" (yes, I'm a geek) kinna thing. I have knowledge that will make someone else's NICU journey easier, so it is my responsibility to do so and pay-it-forward. We had some who helped us in the beginning, a family who was in the Ronald McDonald house with us is the one who always pops into my head first. They're son just happened to be Lil'C's neighbour, so they gave us all the ins-and-outs of being NICU parents early on. They let us know when a nurse let him cry (we changed nurses) and when he went down on his O2 for a bit. They helped us learn what the various alarms were the first time we freaked out at the feeding tube finishing (you know you have done it!) and so on.<br />
They are the reason I begain doing the NICU posts and created my <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/p/nicu-info.html" target="_blank">NICU page</a>. It was all to pay-it-forward. I still like to find other ways to help other new NICU families and celebrate with other older NICU families.<br />
Recently I have started checking out the #NICU, #Preemie and #Micropreemie hashtags on <a href="http://instagram.com/southernfrog/" target="_blank">Instagram.</a><br />
I love leaving "happy comments" such as, how cute their baby (nose, hair, toes, whatever can be seen) is, especially on the micropreemies. I honestly look for something to complement their adorable little person on. I remember how upset it would make me to not be able to share my little guy with my family and friends in person. When I did share him online, I hated the "how sad", "it makes me wanna cry" etc. comments. <br />
I remember quite vividly when our youth group took us to a local (to our NICU) concert to get us out for a bit. Lil' C was about a month or so old, and doing great! I, like any other mom of a newborn, was showing off his pictures. One of the kids (a middle schooler) loudly proclaimed "I can't look!! It's just so SAD! I wanna cry!" Honestly... I kinna wanted to smack her... I was thinking... "WHA??? this is my baby!! He is cute!" So I make sure I do what I can to give other moms "happy comments" because we get those other ones too often.<br />
I also leave comments in preemie mom groups and give advice. Seriously, when my blog posts start to slack, that means I'm posting too often there :P My main one is the <a href="http://www.whattoexpect.com/forums/moms-of-preemies.html">What to Expect: Mom's of Preemies Group</a>. The second is <a href="http://www.facebook.com/breastmilkforpreemies?ref=ts&fref=ts">Breastmilk for Preemies Facebook Page. </a><br />
So, what do you do to support others?FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-42496522820825486942013-01-11T13:36:00.003-06:002013-02-11T21:18:43.844-06:00Christmas projectsSo I'm trying to get myself back on a regular posting schedule.. we will see how that works.
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I figured it would be fun to post some of my Christmas projects :) I made a ton of them! But by far my favorite was my nephew's "Fort Kit." The idea, of course, came from pintrest.<br />
My nephew is really into video games, obsessed would be putting it lightly. During one of his visits with me we made a fort, inspired by <a href="http://www.allfortheboys.com/home/tag/fort-friday" target="_blank">All for the Boys "Fort Friday".</a><br />
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He LOVED it. So when I saw <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/45810121181505621/repin/" target="_blank">This Pin </a>I knew EXACTLY what he was getting for Christmas! And then I ran across <a href="http://www.ikatbag.com/" target="_blank">Ikat Bag's </a>Tutorial for <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/45810121181471444/repin/" target="_blank">This Bag</a> and knew I had to make him one!<br />
This is what I came up with...<br />
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to make it stiffer. I used the grey fabric to make some piping for the bottom (Yep MADE!) using <a href="http://www.nobigdill.com/" target="_blank">No Big Dill's </a>lovely <a href="http://www.nobigdill.com/2012/01/every-time-my-mom-comes-to-visit-i.html" target="_blank">Continuious Bias Tute</a> and another tute that I can't find at the moment. Hopefully I can add it later.<br />
When to make the bag lined I just created two bags (one striped, on canvas) and stuffed the canvas one inside the striped one seams together. I surged the tops of the two bags together and created a fold over hem. The inner bag doesn't have the piping or the cinch straps. I highly suggest Ikats tutorial if only for the sewing corners info... it gave me a *face palm* moment :P <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here is Hubby, Lil'C and the Nephew enjoying the kit :P </td></tr>
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I made so many more things but didn't get pictures of it all, but the worst part.. some of the gifts haven't been sent off yet! <br />
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You can follow <a href="http://pinterest.com/froginstitches/" target="_blank">me on Pintrest</a>! You are welcome to leave me comments reminding me to blog :P<br />
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-22532979807114744062013-01-01T08:32:00.002-06:002013-01-01T08:46:13.345-06:00Happy 2013I hope everyone is having a wonderful new year.<br />
I decided to let you in on our little family tradition. I come from a family of pyros. When my mother-in-law heard of our New Year's tradition she told my father-in-law that I was my hubby's "the one" ;)<br />
So, what do we do? Well... we blow-up our tree.<br />
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<a name='more'></a> Plus shoot off a few cannons and sparkler bombs. Keep in mind that we have many acres to do this and also do the normal stuff too. We shoot off bottle rockets, cook hot dogs and make 'smores. But the favourite part is the tree. <br />
The planning for blowing up the tree begins weeks before Christmas. We go to the tree farm and pick out our live tree. It must always be live, fake trees don't work to well. ;)<br />
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By Christmas day we have stopped watering it. This year I had the tree undecorated and de-lighted on the 26th. We had it outside shortly afterwards. We want it really good and dry.<br />
We bag up all our wrapping paper and gift packaging on Christmas day. We save it until New Year's Eve.<br />
This year we used around $100 worth of fire works.<br />
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A hole is dug for each tree and the tree is "planted." A heavy duty metal screen is erected and staked down.<br />
All the saved Christmas paper is shoved into the trees as close to the trunk as possible. If you didn't know, when wrapping paper burns it gives off all kinds of interesting colors.<br />
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After all of that we shove fire works into the tree. Mostly bottle rockets and screamers. We also use space ships, flowers, and mini roman candles. Cones, as we have discovered do not work. They get engulfed in the flames.<br />
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Once the trees are "decorated" we take our places. The slow-moving, pregnant and those with small children sit in a vehicle to watch behind glass. The brave sit behind the screen. The dumb *cough cough husband cough* <i><b>stand</b></i> behind the screen.<br />
The designated starters hand those behind the screen large roman candles and light them. The Roman candles are aimed at the tree. In the eight years we have been doing this the trees have been lit this way three times, this year being the third.<br />
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If the candles don't take then the guys get creative. We have used a long fuse, an electric starter and the<i> oh-so-smart</i> "run up to the tree and light some wrapping paper with a lighter and run" method. <br />
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Once the flame catches the "brave" duck behind the metal screen, the "dumb" make sure they are recording. I have actually had one bottle rocket hit the screen at my feet on the other side of the screen. It is quite exciting. <br />
Then the trees explode with fire, light, color and sound. This lasts about 2 minutes, but no one can move for about 6 minutes until the fire burns down. Stray fireworks can appear during these six minutes and you never know where or where they will be headed.<br />
Here is this year's <a href="http://youtu.be/YT6QnmEzmEs" target="_blank">Video</a>, shot by my very own husband.<br />
You even get to see him trip mid recording. <br />
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So, what are your traditions?FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-83127434550116648932012-12-07T13:51:00.001-06:002013-02-11T21:19:12.736-06:00What we have been up to..<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
Wow.. So it has been awhile since I have posted. I have felt kinda weird posting lately since after Lil'C's birth (almost 3 years ago!!) this kind of turned into a NICU/hospital life blog. I guess it is time to turn it more towards its original intention which was actually a journal, mostly for my projects. So we shall see how it morphes now. <a href="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-LZTQxi-CiQ0/UMJNZctzX8I/AAAAAAAABKY/Hhz5LlhL1aY/BB_Photo.png" title="Uploaded from BlogBooster"><img alt="Piano play at Thanksgiving" src="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-LZTQxi-CiQ0/UMJNZctzX8I/AAAAAAAABKY/Hhz5LlhL1aY/BB_Photo.png" style="border: none;" /></a><br />
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<a name='more'></a>Lil'K is now 9mo old and is cruising along the furniture and currently cutting 6 (YES, SIX!!) teeth. Lil'C has done away with the walker and now has ankle braces that he has almost grown out of, his ankles are getting much stronger and his left foot only needs it to keep him balanced while his right still needs the support. He now has over 100 signs at last count. He knows all his letters and colors. He has been recently started spelling :)<br />
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In other news I have become addicted to <a href="http://www.instagram.com/southernfrog">Instagram</a> and <a href="http://pintrest.com/froginstitches">Pintrest</a>. My mother has told me that she didn't realize how funny I was until I began sending her my instagrams... Go figure.<br />
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I'm also going to have to change my comment settings due to all the Bots I have been getting lately.. :(<br />
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-46982836575534008562012-10-27T17:35:00.001-05:002013-02-11T21:31:44.249-06:00Cabbage Patch Doll Hat<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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First start with a hat pattern in the desired size (all over the Internet!, check ravelry.com) <a href="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-aD3yeAp0Cng/UIxgH9bhDGI/AAAAAAAABIY/O5woS2opiao/BB_Photo.png" title="Uploaded from BlogBooster"><img alt="Basic hat " src="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-aD3yeAp0Cng/UIxgH9bhDGI/AAAAAAAABIY/O5woS2opiao/BB_Photo.png" style="border: none;" /></a><br />
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Then you need long strips of yarn. . <a href="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-i5R_H2E8PGo/UIxgUeKO3UI/AAAAAAAABIg/tfnNY6--8jY/BB_Photo.png" title="Uploaded from BlogBooster"><img alt="Fringe making" src="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-i5R_H2E8PGo/UIxgUeKO3UI/AAAAAAAABIg/tfnNY6--8jY/BB_Photo.png" style="border: none;" /></a>x. I wrapped mine around a legal pad and made one cut across.<br />
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And more fringe <a href="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-LOjWglxAeao/UIxg4s0Dp3I/AAAAAAAABIw/3oTQDvGBSRc/BB_Photo.png" title="Uploaded from BlogBooster"><img alt="Almost there" src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-LOjWglxAeao/UIxg4s0Dp3I/AAAAAAAABIw/3oTQDvGBSRc/BB_Photo.png" style="border: none;" /></a><br />
You put a lot around your starting ring and then scatter it. I was doing one every two-four stitches. I did one every other stitch around the edge. <br />
Style your "hair". I used pipe cleaners to hold it on place with ribbon on top but you can use regular hair ties. <a href="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-oPS58EHrvpI/UIxhpDD9TII/AAAAAAAABI4/iTLCsLnXBpk/BB_Photo.png" title="Uploaded from BlogBooster"><img alt="Bangs are a bit long. " src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-oPS58EHrvpI/UIxhpDD9TII/AAAAAAAABI4/iTLCsLnXBpk/BB_Photo.png" style="border: none;" /></a><br />
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Trim bangs and place on cute properly attired baby.<br />
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-74797764543351349792012-09-21T14:11:00.001-05:002012-09-21T14:18:46.809-05:00One of those days<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Today is just one of those days, one of those "life isn't fair" days. I'm frustrated, so that just makes it worse. <br/>I have been watching my niece, who is 9mo (6G) younger than Lil'c, during the day. The comparison just makes his issues all that more obvious. At his age, he should be talking, verbally. We use sign to communicate since the brain cysts damaged his ability to express verbal language and has a rather large vocabulary. About 65 signs. She signs some because he does, but she does have words. She actually prefers sign since it is easier at her age. He used to have words.. He used to say "mama", "ah-ma" (grandma), "Ning-ning" (daddy, he made that noise when Lil'c would beep his nose) and a few more that I have on the list on the fridge that I can't even look at anymore. He lost them all when the scaring hardened around the cyst. <br/>Most of his signs are so similar, because of his lack of dexterity due to the cysts, that he is hard to understand. BALL, YEAH, BOOK, CRACKER, COOKIE, ALLIGATOR, BEAR, and blanket all look like MORE. Hers are perfectly articulated, she even gives a "well, duh" expression when she does sign, which is cute. <br/>He falls frequently while she climbs EVERYTHING. His O2 also gets caught around furniture and he gets stuck, while she flutters about the room. She puts stickers everywhere, he can't get them off his hand. She loves to color and make fantastic scribbles, he makes tic marks.<br/>He has to take meds around the clock while she took some earlier today for a bug bite. <br/>For her the O2 tube is a fun and interesting toy, for him an annoyance.<a title='O2' href='http://lh4.ggpht.com/-joA1yvAOooo/UFy8l0r488I/AAAAAAAABHo/kxUGln3lHA8/BB_Photo.png'><img alt='The annoyance' src='http://lh4.ggpht.com/-joA1yvAOooo/UFy8l0r488I/AAAAAAAABHo/kxUGln3lHA8/BB_Photo.png' style='border:none;'/></a> <br/>Her only scar from an accident where she fell down.. His scars.. All from surgery. <br/>Her legs are twice as thick as his and she is already taller, but we are both shorter than her parents, so she probably would have been anyway.<br/>If she is the slightest hungry, she lets me know. He never does, I think he thinks it is normal. I just give him snacks when I give her snacks now. <br/>His 6mo baby sister, Lil'K, almost eats with a spoon as well as he does. <br/>Sometimes the comparisons and the feeling that "life isn't fair" hits you like a ton of bricks, even 2 years after he came home. Today is just one of those days.
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I have converted/changed the opinion of many a nurse when it comes to using cloth. The nurses actually referred to us as "the cloth diapering mom" for awhile. :P <br />
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We frequent the hospital due to my son's medical issues so, I have tried a few different methods of cloth diapering there. <br />
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My first method of diapering was to simply use the doll and preemie 'sposies that were there. At that point we hadn't bought any cloth diapers and were kind of afraid to since we didn't know if we would need them. I also didn't know that there were <a href="http://www.nickisdiapers.com/rumparooz-doll-diapers.html">micropreemie</a> and <a href="http://www.nickisdiapers.com/lil-joey-all-in-one-diaper-2pack.html">preemie sized</a> diapers available. Plus we were at the Ronald McDonald house and I would have been using the washing machines there.. Hitting the <a href="http://dirtydiaperlaundry.com/category/cloth-diapering/washing-cloth-diapers-cloth-diapering/">learning curve</a> using shared machines? Not how you make friends. <br />
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When we finally came home I immediately changed him to cloth. To this day I have never bought a pack of 'sposies (although I have bought Flip<a href="http://www.nickisdiapers.com/flip-inserts.html"> 'sposie insert</a>s) and have returned every pack I have been gifted. Some of which actually went to buy my 4 <a href="http://www.nickisdiapers.com/bumgenius-diapers.html">BG</a> 3.0s from Target. <br />
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When he had his first open heart surgery, at 8mo, I allowed them to use 'sposies during his PICU time. Little did I know Pampers had just started the whole "Dry Max" push/fiasco... Yep.. You guessed it.. Chemical burns. For that reason he has never again used 'sposies and as soon as I got in the room post-csection with Lil'K she got flip inserts. <br />
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After he left the PICU post open heart surgery and went to a regular room I started using cloth in the hospital. In the beginning I just did our normal at home routine since our hospital has a family laundry room. Which consisted of about 24 <a href="http://smartipants.com/">Smartipants</a> with every-other-day wash routine. I have since fell in LOVE with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-brandtextbin=GoGreen&linkCode=ur2&node=165796011&tag=froinsti-20">GoGreen Champ</a> even though the Smarti's are much trimmer. I quickly began washing clothes and diapers together (only at the hospital), since I had to take the elevator and leave him alone to wash as well as to avoid taking over all the machines.<br />
Our hospital uses Gerber flats as burp cloths, which made me wonder if could make them work.. And here is how I do it!<br />
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Diaper cover (we us Flip)<br />
2 Gerber flats aka burp cloths (from the nurses) </b></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b> Stack the two flats on top of each other.</b></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Fold right and left sides to the middle.</b></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Fold in half like a hotdog.</b></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You will need a weight from one of each brand/type you are using. </td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Don't worry the nurses can do that for you.</td></tr>
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The nurses will need to be able to keep track of "input and output" so a clean weight is needed. here is how much Gerber flats weigh. They can weigh any diaper you choose. They subtract the clean diaper weight from the dirty diaper weight to get "output".<br />
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I usually stuff the two wet flats into a large/XL medical gloves just to be polite. Remember most of them will have never seen modern cloth. So give them time to adjust. I dump the solids into the toilet after they get the wet weight and then drop them into the hospital laundry bin. I tend to just hand wash the covers and hang them to dry on the towel rack in our bathroom. Very easy. <br />
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Have you ever used cloth in an unexpected location?<br />
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FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-14916216694973085602012-04-24T10:34:00.001-05:002012-04-24T10:34:19.565-05:00Mended Heart ThanksSo I came up with this a little while back while writing Thank you notes for Lil'K's baby shower gifts. Later, when I was tired, I just used some basic ones.. And apparently upset some people. Little did I know that the ladies at church were talking about my cute cards and those that got the basic ones were confused about what was so great about the cards... Oops. <br />
So I now make these for every thank you card that we need to make as a family. <br />
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Now if you want to copy the idea to use for your family/gifts go right ahead. Please don't sell them and if you post some you made from the idea.. Please link back. It's only polite. I would also love if you link to a post of one you made to see the different styles :)<br />
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Thanks! <div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifz72MzfjiZhyP5zZ3yXLz2K2zoX525qZ-ahfuVTxwxEZJOGHLqWgfSHGaqAZEHhgbPJ22Mg1m9pjP0beTnXh3-FuK6Zc9ujDUDVMnha3_Njr7cWv66JMp-RVVeWS25JKi7lA4rk-co00/s640/blogger-image--682887102.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifz72MzfjiZhyP5zZ3yXLz2K2zoX525qZ-ahfuVTxwxEZJOGHLqWgfSHGaqAZEHhgbPJ22Mg1m9pjP0beTnXh3-FuK6Zc9ujDUDVMnha3_Njr7cWv66JMp-RVVeWS25JKi7lA4rk-co00/s640/blogger-image--682887102.jpg" /></a></div>FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-88374416925061531932012-04-16T12:27:00.000-05:002013-02-11T21:34:28.010-06:00Family of 4<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Well lil'k made her appearance before the end of February.. Barely.<br />
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During reading bedtime stories to lil'c I felt a pop, similar to sitting on a balloon. I stopped and waited a second thinking she had either head-butted my pelvis or my water had broken, when nothing happened for a second I figured it was a head butt and went back to reading. <br />
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Then someone peed in my pants.. <br />
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I called my hubby.. Twice.. And when he came in he said "WHAT!?" .. "my water just broke". I wish I had a picture to the expression that crossed his face! His eyes got the size of saucers, a feat for someone whose eyes disappear when they have the slightest smile :)<br />
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He immediately started running around like a chicken with his head cut off. He called my mom to come get lil'c by informing her that I was "leaking" to which she responded with "Oh, crap", he then called my sister and informed her the same way.. But had to explain leaking was my water had broken.. Her response? "Oh, crap"! My family is consistent :D <br />
I was giddy. I have yet to find another woman in my family whose water had broken at home or anywhere out of a hospital for that matter. <br />
I was having very few light contractions, more like Braxton hicks. <br />
When my parents came we loaded up DH, myself, Lil'c, my sister, mom, dad and my sister's youngest daughter in cars and headed to the hospital 45 minutes away. <br />
I had had a discussion with my OB many weeks before that if I had shown up at the hospital 6-7cm dilated that I could VBAC, since I would be past the danger point. Since I had been 1cm dilated at the last appt and wasn't having strong contractions we tried to take out time. My family was laughing the whole time that they had never seen DH drive that slow, seriously he has gotten tickets for over 100... And once got a ticket for 75mph on rollerblades. We were getting passed on the interstate. <br />
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I was timing contractions and they were pretty far apart. I had a few strong ones and Lil'c was fussing in the back seat. <br />
When we got to the hospital hubby and I got out and my mom took the car with lil'c to park. We stood in the ER for a bit and my water was steadily leaking down my leg and puddling on the floor. I even apologized to the cleaning lady for the mess, but laughed that it was probably the least icky thing she has to clean!<br />
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We finally got to the maternity floor and they stuck me in a little room with another mom (having twins!) with a little curtain between us. This is when I got on Facebook and started chatting with other<a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/394689410782/" target="_blank"> "special scars"</a> moms. I was put on monitors and talked to the nurse, who worried me at first due to the expression that crossed her face when I mentioned<a href="http://www.earthmamaangelbaby.com/free-birth-plan" target="_blank"> "birth plan"</a>. Turns out that having a birth plan is like saying "calm" or "boring" in ICU.. It's kinna a jinx. I told her about us being a hospital family and being used to things changing. I also had a plan for VBAC and C-section. I was again told that it was unlikely I would VBAC due to my prior<a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2010/07/birth-story.html" target="_blank"> Classical.</a> She hooked me up to the monitors and I waited.<br />
Unfortunately this is about the time I got links about how to deal with having your water break before contractions begin... #1... not going to the hospital. <br />
After all the fuss to get there and with my family in the waiting room with my son.. I wasn't leaving. <br />
The Dr came in at some point.. Totally against a VBAC. She seemed to think I was an idiot. She also commented on how irresponsible it was that my OB scheduled my C-section so close to my due date (at 39w6d) and I let her know he was just happy to get any date from me. At some point we told her that we were a hospital family and had spent <a href="http://www.blogger.com/posts.g?blogID=3344858758742397612&searchType=ALL&txtKeywords&label=NICU" target="_blank">a ton of time at the university hospital</a>.. "well, I just came from there". (like this should be a big deal).. My thought.. So she's a noob.. Great. I asked her if she knew my son's case.. (You know the<a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/372018215783/" target="_blank"> ONLY surviving Micropreemie in MS with teratology of fallot</a>)... She didn't.. And she was THERE when he was born! Not a good sign.<br />
At some point my cervix was checked... (another water-break-no-contraction no-no) 1.5cm.. Argghh.<br />
I knew by this point that <a href="http://www.specialscars.org/articles/index.html" target="_blank">my chance of rupture had dropped</a> but I ended up signing the wavers anyway.. And wish I had held off. <br />
Shortly after I had my one and only really good contraction on monitors. A new nurse comes running in yelling at me to get on my side. To which I tell her to hold off till I get through this contraction.. She yells at me again. The other nurse comes in and a furry of movement is going on around me. <br />
During this time my sister and husband (who had been with me the entire time) were out of the room. My sister was near the nurses station when the contraction began. The Dr was there, suddenly yells "I think she is rupturing!!" and runs in my direction. My sister texts this info to my mother who is in the waiting room with my dad, my son and niece. <br />
As I'm being pushed out in the hall my nurse is there and she tells me that they think I'm rupturing, which is when the contraction begins to dissipate. I tell her "but a rupture doesn't stop hurting, right? It's going away" "right" and sighs. It was to late.. I was already on my way to the OR. <br />
In the OR is where the <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2010/07/birth-story.html" target="_blank">flashbacks</a> really started to hit me, but at least the room looked different. It was cold and I was mildly shivering. I got the spinal by the very nice anesthesiologist. He was also rather funny, which helped.<br />
This one hurt pretty bad still and made my leg cramp up again. Once I was laying down they began prepping me and the shaking really started, (a reaction to the spinal). They managed to get it to calm down by piling warm blankets on me. I was keeping myself distracted by chatting up the nurses and the anesthesiologist. We waited on the spinal to fully take effect and the tingling numbness climbed up my body. Every so often they would touch me with the sharp point (scalpel I guess) and I would tell them that I felt it. This went on for a bit. Then the Dr said my husband and sister could come in (she is a pro photographer and would be taking pictures) apparently they had already started cutting by this point. Hubby kept peaking over the curtain and the anesthesiologist would have to adjust my position, I remember one point it felt like my husband was sitting on my chest and he had to adjust me again.. It pretty much stayed that way the rest of the time. <br />
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Then we had the "ok, lots of tugging" moments and it didn't feel quite like my son's. Still felt like a giant pimple popping but more extreme and actually caused my body to shift. <br />
Then a little blood streaked face popped up over the curtain and I think someone said "hi, mom!" I reminded my husband to stay with her. She was cleaned up, checked out and swaddled. All the while yelling her head off, a very welcome difference to the <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2010/07/birth-story.html" target="_blank">deafening silence of my previous delivery</a>. She was then placed on my upper chest and I was able to hold her (with DH's help) minutes after delivery, another huge difference. It felt momentous. When it was time for them to close me up and for her to get the rest of her check-up, my husband and sister went with her to the nursery.<br />
At one point I asked the medical people how my previous scar looked. It was perfect.. No stretching or thinning.... It would have had no trouble with a VBAC. *sigh*<br />
Yes I have a healthy baby, but that shouldn't be the only factor. I now have an even higher risk of a future rupture with even higher risk of complications. I was in massive amounts of near constant pain until just recently, over a month later. She also has a higher risk of asthma. All because of a Drs fear. <br />
It's frustrating and hind-sight is as always 20/20.<br />
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Lil'K was 5lbs2oz and 18". She went down to 4lb13oz before we left the hospital. She was 5lbs3oz at her one-week well baby appointment, much to the amazement of our Ped. Apparently I still produce the <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2011/03/breastfeeding-in-nicu.html" target="_blank">high octane milk</a> that I did for Lil'C. :D. At least something works right! She is happy, healthy, with a perfect heart and nurses like a champ :DFrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344858758742397612.post-41804082024261276442012-03-15T15:46:00.000-05:002013-02-11T21:35:28.195-06:00NICU Babyshower<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span id="goog_1273780293"></span><span id="goog_1273780294"></span>For all the mom's who either know ahead of time that they will have NICU time (high multiples for example) or those, like me, missed/canceled/postponed their own shower due to being on bed<br />
rest or Pre-term labor/delivery. This is going to be a list of great in-the-NICU or post-NICU items for whenever someone asks "what can we do" or "what do you need?" you will have somewhere to send them :)<br />
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<b>In the NICU:</b><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=receiving%20blanket&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Receiving blankets</a>- the cuter the better! They can be used in the NICU and beyond! <br />
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Snap front <a href="http://www.amazon.com/mn/search/?_encoding=UTF8&node=1036592&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=ur2&field-brandtextbin=Perfectly%20Preemie&camp=1789&creative=390957" target="_blank">outfits</a>- for once little one is out of the isolates/warmers<br />
<a href="http://m.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.itsapreemiething.com%2F&h=vAQHBXqCR" target="_blank">another great place for NICU and post NICU cuteness!</a> by a preemie parent for preemie parents! <br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=boppy&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Boppy/covers</a>- great positioner in the NICU and all the usual uses at home. <br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=Moby%20wrap&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Moby Wrap</a>- can be used for kangaroo care and nursing, since few NICUs are private spaces.. Even if in a single room (RARE!) there are still nurses and Drs popping in and out randomly. Afterwards they make great carriers and keep baby close which makes nursing easier, baby less exposed to others (most people keep the "adult" social distance instead of the in-the-face "little baby" distance like with strollers and car seats), calmer and easier to deal with. <a href="http://balancingeverything.com/2009/02/07/make-a-faux-moby-wrap/" target="_blank">(DIY Pattern)</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_il_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=crib%20toy&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Crib toys</a>- we had a few that clipped to his bed but I wish I had had this <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003G2YUUK/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B003G2YUUK" target="_blank">gator toy</a> so that we could have worked more on his tummy skills.. These will vary depending on how long they are there.We did use our <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001H9NXGG/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B001H9NXGG" target="_blank">bugs</a> though!<br />
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Passifiers- cute for those big enough to use them, and specialty for the tiny ones like the <a href="http://www.preemiestore.com/Purple-Wee-Thumbie-Pacifier--micropreemie-_p_6328.html" target="_blank">Wee-Thumbie</a> that my sister got my so when he was still very small. <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2011/01/war-of-passy.html" target="_blank">(why they are in the list)</a><br />
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Tiny Cloth diapers (if your planning on using them)- reciving blankets/flannel can be used as inserts. Cloth may help lower the risk of asthma which is already high in most NICU kids. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0037YGZTG/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B0037YGZTG" target="_blank">Micropreemie</a>, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0016HZT7U/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B0016HZT7U" target="_blank">Preemie</a>, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004RG0PA8/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B004RG0PA8" target="_blank">Newborn</a>, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0066XYL0A/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B0066XYL0A" target="_blank">Above (this brand fit my 4lb 13oz daughter)</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003ZFNZD6/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B003ZFNZD6" target="_blank">Friends</a>- at least that is what we called them. We taped passifiers to the back of their<br />
heads, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_il_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=wub%20a%20nub&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Wub-a-Nubs</a> are the pre-made version.<br />
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<b>For Post-NICU</b><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_il_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=ring%20sling&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Ring sling</a>- like the Moby but the easier option for babies who have head control and easily toss in the diaper bag. Seriously... Our carseat never left the car. Some people prefer<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_il_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=Ergo&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank"> Ergos</a> and other soft structured carriers. The ones to watch out for and avoid are those that face out and put the weight on the crotch, which can cause hip development issues. The weight should be on the bum/thighs. Think sitting straddled on a railing vs. Sitting in a chair. <a href="http://froginstitches.blogspot.com/2011/05/diy-babywearing-sling.html" target="_blank">(My DIY pattern)</a><br />
Always make sure you are safe when <a href="http://babywearinginternational.org/" target="_blank">babywearing!</a><br />
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<b>For Mommy:</b><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FKHMGU/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=froinsti-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B000FKHMGU" target="_blank">Mommy milk storage bags</a>- go through a TON of these.<br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_il_tl?ie=UTF8&keywords=breast%20pump%20car%20charger&tag=froinsti-20&index=aps&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325" target="_blank">Pump car charger</a>- one of those nice things to have because sometimes you have to travel. <br />
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<b>For the family:</b><br />
Gift Cards- to any local-to-the-NICU eatery or just a Visa/Master Card or just cash in general. These really come in handy, hospital food gets real old, real fast plus the bills they had before don't stop.. Even if Daddy has to go back to work or like my hubby.. Had to quit to be with us since it was in another state. <br />
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Think of any thing I missed?<br />
*Disclaimer- Many links go to affiliate sites (amazon to be specific) so I can potentially make money, I still don't suggest things that I don't believe in or haven't used.FrofinStitcheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17758680615035281566noreply@blogger.com0