|Attempting to hold it together for photos|
My sister was my "doula" and my husband was also there. When we got there we realized we had not taken any "bump" pictures, so we took some quickly.
We went in and found out they had given away my room because they expected us to arrive at 8am, while my Dr had told us to arrive at anytime.. I immediately wanted to leave. The nurse seemed a bit angry that we were "late", my sister stepped out of the room where she went to the nurses station and politely (from what I was told) and explained that we were a hospital family and I really did not want to be having the section, but was not given a choice in the matter.
We waited in the prep room, next to a woman in actual labor with the nurse and my sister telling jokes to keep my mind off of it. We kept being told "a few more minutes" "uh oh.. someone got pushed ahead" so I didn't actually go back until 3. That gave us enough time for them to eat and my sister to braid my hair since I knew it would be a little while until I would be able to shower.
We went over my birth plan (I used this one as a starting point and adjusted it for us) and they assured us that they would attempt to accommodate our wishes. I swear they thought I was the crazy natural mama up for the section, but after my sister's talk with the nurses they were all really kind to us, almost pitying.
When I finally went back I was scared and worried the entire time. I really hate getting epidurals... the cold room, the pain, the worry that if they slip up I could be paralyzed, spinal headaches... etc. Then I was staring at the same ceiling tiles as I was at Lil'K's delivery and thinking that if that Dr hadn't been an idiot then I wouldn't be forced to do this section..
|Skin-to-Skin in the OR|
She was cleaned up and hubby got to trim the cord, which was actually a first for us. He stayed with her until she was reunited with me in the room. I of course was numb and unable to move my legs for many hours. I remember them doing the final clean up and after they removed the curtian being shocked that my legs weren't straight like I thought they were. When I was back in the room my hubby was able to stay with me, and my parents brought Lil'C and Lil'K to meet their new baby sister, Baby K. They both wanted to climb on my lap and cuddle but we of course had to be careful since I couldn't move or feel if they were hurting me.
|Lil'K and Baby K|
|Lil'C and Baby K|
|Baby wearing less than 24hours after Section.|
The biggest worry I had was going home, and being home most of the day by myself with 3 little ones while healing from the surgery. Due to Lil'K's affinity for flopping, that did become a worry. She landed on me once so hard that I screamed and my sister had to pull her off. I was in tears it hurt so bad.. and I was on pain meds at the time.
|At 5Lb 15oz She was my largest baby.|
|She has gotten much bigger in 6 months|
My post-pain is worse now as well. My scar is in almost constant pain along with my upper right thigh, there is also some numbing at the upper part of it (the pain goes around the edges of the numbing). It just all feels so unnecessary and a bit unfair to my girls and myself. So now I have had one necessary and life saving c-section, and two unnecessary ones.
Baby K is growing and is a very happy little person, for that I am blessed.